End the Cycle Evolve

A 6 Month Mentoring Program With Former Therapist and Master Transformation Coach Leanne Oaten

Transform Your Pain Into Power

and Finally Get Clarity On Whether Your Relationship Can Be Saved

Shift the patterns of crazymaking arguments, tension and conflict in your relationship starting today with a proven process that actually moves you toward rapid change

This is a high level 6 month mentoring and coaching program taught by a trained Holistic Therapist and Master Transformation Coach with over 8 years of experience leading women into their power

End the Cycle Evolve is a step by step program and method for women experiencing emotional abuse with a partner who exhibits narcissistic traits.

You’ve researched narcissism at length, and find your partner doesn’t fit all of the criteria and behaviors of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)

And because your partner shows both positive and negative behaviors, and doesn’t fit the full criteria for NPD, you’re unsure if you’re actually experiencing abuse

You swing back and forth between being ready to leave and wondering if maybe there is hope for change to occur. Or, maybe you’re separated and hoping for a reunion once he’s worked on himself

Maintaining emotional balance when you’re ‘poked’ and ‘provoked’ feels nearly impossible, and you find yourself reacting in ways you aren’t proud of.

End The Cycle Evolve will show you how to get out of the confusion and stop reacting ways that only make things worse and take you out of your personal power

No more walking on eggshells to maintain the peace (at your expense). No more putting your needs and feelings last. It’s time to bring YOU back into the equation of your life.

Nothing changes until YOU change

Other programs about healing after narcissistic abuse tell you leaving and going “no contact” is the only option, or they offer guidance on healing after you’ve left.

End The Cycle Evolve is specifically created for women who are experiencing the patterns of narcissistic abuse, who aren’t sure if they should give the relationship more time, or if leaving is the only way toward a whole and healed life

It’s also for women who don’t feel leaving is the right decision, who have kids or other entanglements.

Some women think the benefits of staying outweigh the cost of leaving and even fear the damage done to the children if they leave

You need to discover for yourself through

self-reclamation, setting rock-solid boundaries, getting clarity on the abuse cycle, learning about your part in the ‘dance’, and how you’re a match for this type of partner

Going to friends, family, and uninformed therapists who minimize what you’re going through only leads to further traumatization.

You need a proven strategy and plan to follow to actually move toward real change – from the inside out

A holistic path that integrates your mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical dimensions, that merges psychology, counselling, coaching, and solution focused mentorship.

Here are some things you’re likely experiencing:

Your partner never takes ownership and turns everything around on to you (which leaves you questioning if your concerns are valid)
Your partner tells you you’re crazy, irrational, always complaining, or too sensitive all the time when you share with him how he’s hurting you
You feel like you have to constantly repeat yourself over and over again until you’re exhausted, and when you think he finally gets it this time, nothing actually changes for more than a few days
You feel like you’re always talking and talking, trying to articulate and explain perfectly how you feel, but your partner is never actually listening to you, so you go around and around in circles until you collapse from emotional exhaustion
You continually feel invalidated, rejected, and like your partner just doesn’t care about you or how you feel, it feels like he has no concern or empathy for how you’re hurting (due to his behavior)

You get the feeling that all the problems in the relationship are all because of you because every issue you raise somehow gets turned around onto you
Your partner constantly minimizes and makes excuses for his bad behavior (which is always somehow your fault)
You often find yourself swinging from feeling you want to leave because the behavior is so intolerable, to feeling hope when he’s “being nice” and promising to change, to wondering if you’ve tried hard enough to questioning if he really is a narcissist, back to self blame, back into the cycle
You often feel confused after interactions with your partner, or by his strange and odd behaviors that leave you questioning yourself, and wondering if you really are going crazy
It’s time to stop participating in the crazymaking nonsense and take charge of your life!

Inside the ETC program

we dive deep into the dysfunctional dynamics of hidden and subtle verbal and emotional abuse, and how to get yourself untangled from the physical, emotional, and psychological effects

5 Phases of Narcissitic Abuse Cycle

If you have doubts that what you’re experiencing is abuse, this program will give you clarity, the reassurance you aren’t crazy, the conviction to follow through on setting limits and boundaries, and some next steps to take to empower yourself to get off the roller coaster and out of the cycle.

Here’s What You’ll Be Doing Inside End the Cycle Evolve:

Phase 1: The Relationship Reset

Transcending The Confusion and Crazymaking Cycle

How to regain your inner peace and stop getting swept away in your partner’s behavior and allowing it to negatively impact you by taking space and setting some new boundaries

Learn the narcissistic abuse cycle in-depth, the emotional abuse patterns, red flags and behaviors to be aware of, and how to respond differently to shift the dynamic and stop wondering if you’re making things bigger than they are
Take back your emotional power so you stop reacting in ways that perpetuate the cycle (that he can use against you later) and you can feel good about how you’re showing up no matter what he’s doing
Learn how you’re playing into the dynamic, how to stop feeding the cycle, regain your inner peace and stop feeling controlled and powerless in your life
Discover new ways to respond to emotional abuse tactics and comments without reacting emotionally and making things worse
Unhook yourself from the emotional addiction you have to your partner which is driving you to keep ending up back in the toxic cycle so that you can regain your sense of inner peace and balance

Phase 2:

Own Your Boundaries and Stop Tolerating Abuse

Learn how to set powerful boundaries even when you’ve tried before and they haven’t worked

Come out of the abuse fog, awaken to the truth, and lift the veil of confusion so you can see everything from a new level of clarity
Learn how self sacrificing, overhelping, over-functioning, over-giving and enabling behaviors keep the dynamic alive and actually prevent change from happening
Learn how to stop blaming your partner and giving your power away to him, get out of feeling like a victim and take full ownership for your side of the street

Phase 3:

Reclaim YOU and Your Personal Power

Learn the most important areas to shift within yourself to feel more powerful and in charge of your emotions and life, including breaking codependent patterns

Come out of the abuse fog, awaken to the truth, and lift the veil of confusion so you can see everything from a new level of clarity
Learn how self sacrificing, overhelping, over-functioning, over-giving and enabling behaviors keep the dynamic alive and actually prevent change from happening
Learn how to stop blaming your partner and giving your power away to him, get out of feeling like a victim and take full ownership for your side of the street

Phase 4:

Intervention | How to Know if Change is Possible + Plan Your Exit Strategy

In this module, you’ll have a clear plan and process for getting clear about if your partner can change, exactly what he’d need to do, and you will also be empowering yourself by developing your exit strategy ahead of time, just in case.

Use my print out guides and checklists for you (and for him) to discover if your partner can REALLY change, the reality of what it takes for him to make real change, key indicators and what you will hear and see from him that show his willingness to change, and a list of what he needs to do to show he’s willing to work on his issues.
Define your next steps so you can stop feeling ambivalent and confused. You will also create your exit plan with checklists and audios walking you step by step through the process and learn how to do an intervention to set your new expectations with your partner
Know your relationship needs, define your non-negotiable needs, and develop a plan of action to implement in your relationship, or start taking action toward your exit plan. You are the leader of your own process.
Challenge and reframe all of your self sabotaging beliefs that are keeping you in victim mode and stuck in the cycle of abuse

Phase 5:

Integration | Continuing Your Transformation Journey

This phase is all about self-reflecting and focusing on the work that you’ve done in the program, and most importantly, integrating it into your life so you can turn it into tangible solution-focused action and change. You will be setting your goals and plans and ensure you don’t fall back into the cycle.

Perhaps right about now, you’re feeling terrified that by joining ETCE you’ll have to make a decision whether or not to leave your partner, and you’re not ready for that…

This program is not about forcing you to make a decision about whether to stay or go. It’s abut guiding you to making your own decisions, because in the end, nobody knows better about what to do about your life than you do.

You always have choice.

want you to come to your own conclusions and decisions as a result of doing the inner work to get real and honest with yourself about what you’ve been experiencing, and how you’ve been allowing, even enabling, your partner’s abusive and disrespectful behavior.

You might be feeling afraid that if you leap and join ETCE, this means that you have to blow up your life and make huge decisions about your family as a result of taking the program, this is also not the case.

In the process of going through the modules, you will begin to shift and see things much differently and will be able to make healthier decisions about your future from a healthier place.

This program is intended to help you get clarity on the phases of the emotional abuse cycle, and insight into whether your relationship can be changed, including creating your own plan for change that puts the focus back on you and your needs.

You may be with a partner who says he wants to change and promises to go to therapy to deal with his issues. From my experience working with so many women, this is not an effective strategy on its own.

To help you know exactly what he needs to be doing to actually change, (in module 4 after you’ve done your work) I outline exactly what he needs to be doing to actually change his behaviors at the root cause, should he be willing to join you in the change process.

You will define your next steps and walk away with a plan of action to implement to either stay, stay for now, or begin the exit phase of your relationship.

ETC is the ONLY complete, holistic, Counselling Psychology based program that offers a step by step process to guide you in navigating an emotionally toxic relationship that supports you where you are right now in your relationship

The only holistically based program for women who are still in the relationship and want a process to gain clarity if they want to stay or go

Create your life vision
Get CLARITY on the cycle of hidden abuse
Set Your New Boundaries
Reclaim Your Relationship to YOU and Break Codependent Patterns
Develop your process for change and learn how to conduct an intervention with your new expectations in order to remain in the relationship
Develop your exit strategy (just in case) so you’r prepared

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Here’s what you receive when you invest in ETCE 6 month mentoring program today:

5 Core Modules of my End the Cycle Signature program delivered via videos, audios, workbooks, PDF guides, recorded classes. Self paced over the 6 month duration of the program ($1997 value)
Personalized Community support in our private (non-social media) chat forum for group discussions related to the modules and connecting with other women in the program. Because this is through a private app, you’ll feel more at ease interacting and sharing in the group. The group connections on the live calls and in the chat forum are invaluable when you need an anchor, and to feel you have support behind you every step. (priceless)
Twice Monthly live coaching calls on Zoom You’ll have an opportunity to submit your questions ahead of time before each live call, and get them answered even if you can’t attend. MP3 audio recordings of these calls are provided. The calls happen twice per month via Zoom. (My coaching session fee is $1,000 per hour, you can do the math on what these calls alone are valued at, plus you learn from the other women which speeds your transformation process).
A library of past Q & A calls and Evolving Women Workshops
Weekly email reminders for the initial 30 day Relationship Reset to keep you on track and focused in the work (it’s like having a coach guiding you every step of the way)

How it Works

Once you register you’ll have instant access to the entire program education area. You can dive it right away and get started!

You will participate in the initial 30 Day Relationship Reset, and once you do this you will have the opportunity to deepen your growth, healing and transformation over the additional 5 months we have together in the program.

This is a supported study program, which means it’s self-paced with the added personalized support in the community and live calls.

Once you register you’ll receive an email from me with your next steps, how the program works, and strategies for how to set yourself up for success.

My private clients pay over $3,500 monthly to work with me, and I know not everyone is in a place to invest at this level, and I only offer this to a few select clients per year…

I want to serve many more women in a shorter period of time, for a fraction of the cost so I can live my mission and purpose to get women out of the harmful relationship dynamics they’re living in starting with their own healing and growth

You can join End The Cycle Evolve today for only $549 USD* and get INSTANT access to start today on your transformation journey

*6 monthly payments of $549

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You’ll finish this program with a clear plan of action moving forward – whatever that is for you.

No more endless hours researching online for answers, pouring through stacks of books, floundering, and trying to figure it out on your own!

End The Cycle Evolve is all about coming back home to you.

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Let’s Talk About Why You Can’t Afford NOT To Join ETCE

You might be thinking that a group program won’t offer you the support you need, however working in a group setting with other women in a similar situation is extremely powerful.

You will learn from other women’s experiences, and identify with other women’s stories.

In fact, a group setting is often more transformational (when it’s facilitated effectively) than simply going for weekly therapy sessions. It’s potent and powerful, you’ll feel validated, heard, and seen in the community.

Many of my ETC program ladies report how powerful it is to have a community of women sharing and validating one another, and how healing it is to see themselves and their situation in other women, to know that what they’ve been experiencing is a real thing that countless other women are also living with.

You can pay a therapist $150 per hour each week ($600 monthly) and get mediocre results…

Or you can join a specialized, laser focused, and proven process to get you from uncertainty, anxiety, and confusion to clarity, focus, peace, and power (within weeks).

The combination of the module work, live calls, and private online support forum so you get the attention you need, makes this a no-brainer solution to getting out of the painful cycles you’re in.

You can post in the group 24/7 and get answers to your specific relationship challenges so that you can start doing things differently.

ETCE is an investment in yourself and your future.

“I felt I wasn’t worth “that much money”. My transformation and mental health is worth way more than that money!!! If you are on the fence… just do it!! You won’t regret it. All my years of therapists didn’t even get me close to where I am now and that was after a few weeks of the program.”

Marie

ETC Student

This program rapidly and permanently changes women’s lives in a way that years of therapy could not.

ETC is a specifically designed system, step-by-step method, and process that goes beyond what traditional 1:1 therapy can provide.

Let me clarify: I’m not knocking good quality therapy, there is definitely a place for it, however for the majority of my clients and students, therapy alone was not enough to move them toward meaningful change because the root cause of the relationship issues wasn’t being addressed.

You have a choice. Because life is about choice.

You can invest in getting specific support and guidance to move you forward (in much less time) toward having a real plan and your next steps already figured out

You can keep doing what you’ve been doing and try to figure it out on your own with books, online research, YouTube, free groups, and podcasts… and be in this exact same place in 6 months, 12 months, or sadly even longer

Each choice we make holds a consequence. A cause and an effect. Right now you’ve got an important life-changing choice to make.

Keep going in the same direction, or plug into a solution that will move your forward much faster than doing it alone

It’s time to get real about how staying where you are is impacting you.

If you choose to do nothing, nothing changes, and not only does nothing change, it most often becomes worse

If you know you’re ready to completely transform your life

Chances are, you’re exhausted and feel at the end of your rope. You’ve been at this for quite some time, and you’re asking yourself how much longer this can go on the way it is. You know something’s got to give. You’ve been putting your life on hold as you’ve been consumed with getting by day to day, coping in the relationship dynamics.

A Message To Moms

If you’re like the many of the moms I have worked with, you’re also feeling torn between choosing yourself and letting down your children or others if you decide to leave, and finding a way to make it work to avoid the anguish of breaking up your family.

Your body is breaking down.

Your adrenals are depleted, you’re not sleeping, and new health symptoms arise as you become sicker and sicker.

You may even have adrenal fatigue, thyroid issues, hormone and period problems, and myriad unexplained aches, pains, and ‘syndromes’ due to the ongoing stress you’ve been under.

And because of the state of your physical and emotional health, you feel unequipped to make decisions about what to do about your situation.

You feel trapped.

It’s not your fault that you’ve reached this point. You have not had the right support, a structured plan, and specialized expert guidance.

The people you have gone to for help and support have led you astray. Don’t blame and shame yourself for feeling stuck, this will not help.

But if you keep going on this path and the relationship continues as it has been, and becomes worse over time, your body will continue to deteriorate, your mental health will continue to decline, and any children you have in the home will be further harmed in the dynamic of tension, and seeing you unhappy and unwell.

If you’re like most of my clients before they start working with me, you likely feel your family’s fate rests on your shoulders, and the pressure is intense. You play mental ping pong all day long about whether to stay or go.

You’re not present for your kids, and you feel like a terrible mother when you lose your cool with them yet again due to all the pressure and stress you’re under.

I get you’re overwhelmed with the uncertainty of your future, and you’re confused about where to go from here.

But the cold hard, no nonsense truth is that things will only continue to get worse if you don’t get the expert help you need to move the needle forward and develop a plan of action.

You don’t have time to tinker around in therapy talking about how crappy you feel for months on end, getting nowhere.

And therapy with your partner is doomed to fail as well.

The solution is you coming back to you.
Taking the focus off of your partner, and putting it on you.

To bring yourself back into the equation of your life.

For you to start taking a stand and setting rock solid limits and boundaries.

To take steps to protect yourself and your children if you have any in the home.

You want peace, relief, to feel safe and relaxed, happy, and excited about waking up in the morning, to feel the freedom to live your life how you want to live it – without walking on eggshells, without feeling controlled.

You have been too focused on him, and it’s time to focus on YOU.

ETC is the solution.

Need more convincing ETC is for you?

Women Answer:

“How did ETC most help you?”

(Identity is omitted to protect confidentiality)

“ETC helped me recognize the cycle and learn not to emotionally react. Having online support for insight into personal situations so I could relate it to the material”.

“End The Cycle lifted the veil on what is going on in my marriage. I have been unhappy almost my whole marriage and I felt so much guilt and shame that I was unhappy. Seeing behind the scenes and understanding covert abuse dramatically elevated the feeling that I was a “bad wife” for not liking my husband. ETC radically opened my eyes to MY POWER. I am SO much stronger than I thought. I am SO much more divinely powerful than I EVER thought. Radically shifting my view from victim to empowered! THANK YOU! ETC helped me see that I am not alone!! For years the dark fog of abuse had me confused and believing the illusion that I was the only one living this way. I thought I was broken, I believed my marriage was shit because I was too sensitive. I am WORTHY of healthy love and connection”.

“Receiving validation, support, and the tools that I need to move forward in whichever way I decide”.

“I familiarized myself with gaslighting stone walling etc . Gaining clarity. And having a supportive group behind me”.

“I’m in the ETC program and learning so much I wish I knew prior to leaving my ex!” K.R

“I have learned self care/self love/boundaries how to use and practice them. In setting myself routines, and learning about abuse cycles. Knowledge is power and I have learned so much through Leanne’s ETC program.”

“ETC has helped me to be empowered and know that I am not alone, crazy, or asking for much, learn ways to communicate effectively to not allow myself to self sacrifice all the time and keep boundaries in place, and helped me connect with other women in similar situations and find ways to break the cycle”.

Benefits of ETC

How is ETC More Beneficial Than Going to Therapy?

“The journaling prompts and having some type of “homework” was very helpful. It gave me things to take action on instead of just talking about things.”

“ETC made me realize my codependency and my “role” with some of my past relationships with men. ETC dives deep in to narcissism and personality traits that go along with it. ETC reminds me to let go of the “victim mentality”; providing me with an awareness and accountability for myself. I matter.”

“ETC offered specific information that helped me understand not only the spectrum of narcissistic behavior but also my own role in the relationship. ETC also hammered home the importance of self-care as a means to place the focus on myself as well as highlight how self-care practices are essential to staying well physically and emotionally.”

“The accountability and an outlined directives for self soothing and regulating emotions have been most helpful once aware of codependency patterns.”

“In ETC there is time to digest and reflect on the content and how it applies to my situation, while the twice weekly video calls kept me accountable. It’s one thing to read/listen to the modules and entirely another to do the self reflection and work. I was motivated to stay on top of it all so that I could get as much as possible out of the video calls. I have done therapy on my own and with my partner and often find that the sessions themselves are packed full of information and emotion, with too much time between sessions to ensure that personal or relationship progress remains a top priority. ETC almost feels like a month-long therapy session where I was actually able to relate to the content and truly learn about myself and what I need. I am in a much better position to make real plans and initiate real change in my life.”

“ETC is way more actionable and future-focused than therapy.”

What Women Like You Are Saying About The Program:

“Before stumbling across awakening women on Instagram, I was confused, being manipulated and emotionally abused, daily. I didn’t even know what gaslighting was. I was often crying, not wanting to proceed with my day, tangled up with my partner. Everyday now, [after working with Leanne and the ETC program], I empower myself more and feel better. I am in a healthy routine and bettering myself now, I’m learning about energy and I am motivated to protect mine. My focus used to be on my partner and everything he was doing. Now my focus is on me and my kids. I’ve changed the way I react to him and slowly but surely disconnecting myself from the toxicity” C.C

“I came across this course at the exact moment I needed to, and it has been beyond valuable. In all honesty there were moments where I felt like I wasn’t make any progress, and ones where I doubted that I ever would. But just doing the work- reading and listening and actually writing out my reflections really did result in clarity. Suddenly my needs and the beginnings of some real boundaries were right in front of me, in my own handwriting! I feel more in tune with myself than I think I ever have, and I am so grateful for you Leanne, and this incredible course. Thank you so, so much.”

“If you get a chance to work with Leanne she will help you transform your behavior and shift your energy towards what serves you. I’m so grateful she has taught me to love myself just the way I am and to go deep and face my emotions head on. Leanne taught me to set boundaries and take care of me. Thank you for lifting me up”. J.P

“Before the ETC program I was overwhelmed, my head was spinning, I was constantly hurt and in distress and had no clue why other than that my relationship was unhealthy. This program helped me to see the dynamics at play, know that I am not crazy or the one causing the chaos, know that yes I do play a part in the dance and to take responsibility for my own wellbeing. These are valuable life tools and essential when dealing with a covertly abusive partner because generic advice doesn’t work with them. I feel like I armed with the tools I need to move forward.” L.G

“ETC has radically shifted my reality. ETC has transformed my beliefs that I was powerless, unworthy, unseen and unheard. For so long I felt stuck and helpless. ETC is a bright beacon of light shining light on the TRUTH. The truth is I am powerful, worthy, seen and heard! I matter! I am deserving of a healthy relationship and I no longer accept mistreatment in place of love. Thanks Leanne!” A.T

“Before I found Leanne, I had spent a year reading and watching everything I could get my hands on about narcissistic abuse. I went from simply being educated about it to being supported and coached in such a caring and understanding way that gave me the strength and validation to leave. If I wanted to stay, she would have certainly helped me with that too. That’s what is different with Leanne. She supports you with whatever you decide to do.”

“Before ETC I was still trying to figure out both me and my husband. ETC helped me to focus solely on me and what I need and want in a relationship. I was able to let go of some things that were not helping me and had actually been hurting me. I gained a lot of confidence about myself and my own abilities. I feel like a capable and empowered woman now. I don’t know exactly what my future looks like but I know I can handle it.”

“Before ETC, I was leaning toward leaving the relationship–and that’s where I am now, except I feel much more “prepared” mentally and emotionally. I truly believe the boundary work (which I desperately needed to do) will benefit other relationships in my life — and perhaps future relationships. I also learned some things about myself, including how the way I’ve shown up/reacted to my current relationship is often the way I’m showing up/reacting to other things in my life. This was a powerful realization for me–and was one of several “aha” moments.”

“Before joining ETC, I knew my relationship was toxic but my coping was not getting me the change or feeling of stability and inner calm I desperately was seeking from others (friends, doctor, therapist.) Two plus years of personal therapy seemed lacking in the understanding of emotional abuse and how to help myself. An attempt to leave without support was unsuccessful. ETC has given me a clearer understanding on the cycle of abuse, tactics used to keep me in fear and under control in this relationship for years. I am now aware of how my silence, over-functioning, almost nonexistent boundaries and victim mentality contribute to abandonment of myself, codependency, reactive behaviours and avoidance of conflict. Unresolved childhood trauma and buried emotions added to my inner turmoil and inability to self regulate my moods. Learning to detach from negative interactions and conversation has been a huge positive shift in my self healing. The many layers of trauma need my attention for ongoing healing. Increasing selfcare, keeping routine while reinforcing my boundaries and SPEAKING my truth (and improving what and how I say it and positive self talk)is building my self confidence. Although I know I no longer wish to remain in this relationship, I am staying, for now, to work on myself in preparation. I feel prepared with a self care routine for my emotional and physical health; along with an exit strategy. Being aware of old ways of avoidance and fear; how to return to myself and seek support when taking the next steps is crucial for my success and growth. With divine gratitude, S.R.”

“My partner and I have been inching toward separating for years, but we have a young daughter and separation would likely mean she and I moving to another town to be near my family. Over the past few months the discussions were getting more serious and there were a number of times where we decided to move forward with separating. My partner would have an overnight change of heart and the pattern would begin again. I was burned out, completely dissociated from myself and at a loss about how to proceed. Now I have taken ownership of my decision to stay in this relationship for now. I have always felt like I wouldn’t leave without knowing I had tried everything, but couldn’t accept that the thing I needed to try was prioritizing myself and my needs. I understand that, while I was not the cause of it, my codependency and lack of boundaries were enabling his emotionally abusive behaviour. Working on myself has given me clarity on what my boundaries are and I find myself setting them more consistently every day. I’m learning to trust myself more and worry about the future less.”

“I was lost in the fog because I had not been true to myself due to strong codependent patterns. I learned that I need to practice self care. I understood that setting boundaries and enforcing them is a skill – it needs to be practiced consistently. And most importantly, I learned to take radical self responsibility and own my power. I am not a victim.”

Have questions?

Frequently asked questions

We helped thousands of people all over the world. We’d love to help you too.

I’m already in counselling, will ETC help me?

While not a substitute for therapy, ETC will provide you with in-depth transformation, community support, responsive answers to your questions as they arise, and powerful tools and insights you won’t get in regular therapy. You can take this program along with therapy. It’s your choice.

I am worried I can’t afford ETC, but I know I need this, what should I do?

I have offered a payment plan to make this easier, and also invite you to see whether your concerns are coming from fear, lack, and victim mentality. You are operating from present circumstances, not from where you want to be. While I would not advocate purchasing ETC if you can’t feed your family or pay your mortgage, I challenge you to consider that you may have fixed beliefs about money and spending on yourself. You receive a whole lot more from this program than you will with just one-hour counselling sessions each week. Something to keep in mind.

Can I cancel my registration if I change my mind?

There are no cancellations, however, if you do the work and show a 90% completion of the program, show up for the support calls and give your 100% and you don’t get results, you are eligible for a full refund within 30 days of the program completion date.

Do I have to commit to making all 6 of the payments on the installment plan?

Yes, the installment plan option is offered for your convenience to make it accessible for those who aren’t able to pay for the program in full. This is not a membership, it is a coaching program. You are required to make all of your payments. Payments are debited every 30 days with the payment method you have on file. If you wish to continue on after the 6 month initial phase month to month, you will be invited to do that at the end of the 6 month period.

What if I can’t attend the live coaching calls and bonus classes?

While it is strongly recommended that you find a way to attend the live coaching calls for the most benefit, there will be replay recordings made available.

I’m not in the relationship anymore, or am separated and considering going back to my ex-partner, will ETC still help me?

ETC is designed for women who are still in the relationship, or who are separated but are still feeling entangled with their ex, and are seriously considering reconciliation. Maybe your partner has made some changes, and you want to know if it’s going to stick this time. ETC will give you clarity and a step by step process to know if your relationship can, or should be saved before you make the decision. Before you decide to engage back in the relationship, I urge you to take ETC first.

If I’m already leaning toward leaving the relationship will ETC still help me?

Many women leave a relationship like this and return, statistics say 7 times, before leaving for good. It is also common to get sucked back in with manipulation and promises each time you try to leave. Being in ETC as you formulate clarity, inner strength, and a plan for your exit, as well as preparing yourself emotionally and logistically, will increase the odds that when you do leave, it will be for good.

Where can I ask questions during the program?

You can ask anything related to the modules during the live coaching calls, and in our private support group where you can post questions.

I’m worried I won’t have time to focus on ETC, how much time should I expect to spend on this?

You get out of anything that you put into it. Allocate about 5 hours per week for watching/listening to the material, study and notes/journalling, or any homework you have to do. Also, keep in mind, clients report ETC did more for them in 30 days than months spent in therapy getting nowhere. If you focus and stay in the work you will experience profound transformation.

Can I pay in CAD if I’m in Canada?

We do not make currency adjustments. Adjusting the currency for every person that requests it would be extremely time consuming, and an admin nightmare. USD is a standard and universal currency for global businesses, and 90% of our business expenses, including software and tools to house our online programs, are paid for in US dollars

I’m overwhelmed with my relationship and the stress I’m under, can I do this program?

You’re overwhelmed because you don’t have the right support, tools, information, and a strategy to start focusing on the right areas. When you don’t have a plan, overwhelm sets in, and overwhelm is a habit. It’s also a trauma response and is a way we sabotage ourselves. We will address how to overcome the habit of overwhelm in ETC.

Do You Have a License Number so I can try to get insurance coverage?

Because I am no longer practicing as a counsellor (and this program is not counselling) I do not have a license number. ETCE is not a counselling program, it is a coaching and mentoring program.

Questions that aren’t covered here about the program?
Email hello@leanneoaten.com

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