End the Cycle Evolve
A 6 Month Mentoring Program With Former Therapist and Master Transformation Coach Leanne Oaten
Transform Your Pain Into Power
and Finally Get Clarity On Whether Your Relationship Can Be Saved
Shift the patterns of crazymaking arguments, tension and conflict in your relationship starting today with a proven process that actually moves you toward rapid change
This is a high level 6 month mentoring and coaching program taught by a trained Holistic Therapist and Master Transformation Coach with over 8 years of experience leading women into their power
End the Cycle Evolve is a step by step program and method for women experiencing emotional abuse with a partner who exhibits narcissistic traits.
You’ve researched narcissism at length, and find your partner doesn’t fit all of the criteria and behaviors of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
And because your partner shows both positive and negative behaviors, and doesn’t fit the full criteria for NPD, you’re unsure if you’re actually experiencing abuse
You swing back and forth between being ready to leave and wondering if maybe there is hope for change to occur. Or, maybe you’re separated and hoping for a reunion once he’s worked on himself
Maintaining emotional balance when you’re ‘poked’ and ‘provoked’ feels nearly impossible, and you find yourself reacting in ways you aren’t proud of.
End The Cycle Evolve will show you how to get out of the confusion and stop reacting ways that only make things worse and take you out of your personal power
No more walking on eggshells to maintain the peace (at your expense). No more putting your needs and feelings last. It’s time to bring YOU back into the equation of your life.
Nothing changes until YOU change
Other programs about healing after narcissistic abuse tell you leaving and going “no contact” is the only option, or they offer guidance on healing after you’ve left.
End The Cycle Evolve is specifically created for women who are experiencing the patterns of narcissistic abuse, who aren’t sure if they should give the relationship more time, or if leaving is the only way toward a whole and healed life
It’s also for women who don’t feel leaving is the right decision, who have kids or other entanglements.
Some women think the benefits of staying outweigh the cost of leaving and even fear the damage done to the children if they leave
self-reclamation, setting rock-solid boundaries, getting clarity on the abuse cycle, learning about your part in the ‘dance’, and how you’re a match for this type of partner
Going to friends, family, and uninformed therapists who minimize what you’re going through only leads to further traumatization.
You need a proven strategy and plan to follow to actually move toward real change – from the inside out
A holistic path that integrates your mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical dimensions, that merges psychology, counselling, coaching, and solution focused mentorship.
Here are some things you’re likely experiencing:
Inside the ETC program
5 Phases of Narcissitic Abuse Cycle
If you have doubts that what you’re experiencing is abuse, this program will give you clarity, the reassurance you aren’t crazy, the conviction to follow through on setting limits and boundaries, and some next steps to take to empower yourself to get off the roller coaster and out of the cycle.
Here’s What You’ll Be Doing Inside End the Cycle Evolve:
Phase 1: The Relationship Reset
Transcending The Confusion and Crazymaking Cycle
How to regain your inner peace and stop getting swept away in your partner’s behavior and allowing it to negatively impact you by taking space and setting some new boundaries
Own Your Boundaries and Stop Tolerating Abuse
Reclaim YOU and Your Personal Power
Learn the most important areas to shift within yourself to feel more powerful and in charge of your emotions and life, including breaking codependent patterns
Intervention | How to Know if Change is Possible + Plan Your Exit Strategy
Integration | Continuing Your Transformation Journey
This phase is all about self-reflecting and focusing on the work that you’ve done in the program, and most importantly, integrating it into your life so you can turn it into tangible solution-focused action and change. You will be setting your goals and plans and ensure you don’t fall back into the cycle.
Perhaps right about now, you’re feeling terrified that by joining ETCE you’ll have to make a decision whether or not to leave your partner, and you’re not ready for that…
This program is not about forcing you to make a decision about whether to stay or go. It’s abut guiding you to making your own decisions, because in the end, nobody knows better about what to do about your life than you do.
You always have choice.
You might be feeling afraid that if you leap and join ETCE, this means that you have to blow up your life and make huge decisions about your family as a result of taking the program, this is also not the case.
In the process of going through the modules, you will begin to shift and see things much differently and will be able to make healthier decisions about your future from a healthier place.
This program is intended to help you get clarity on the phases of the emotional abuse cycle, and insight into whether your relationship can be changed, including creating your own plan for change that puts the focus back on you and your needs.
You may be with a partner who says he wants to change and promises to go to therapy to deal with his issues. From my experience working with so many women, this is not an effective strategy on its own.
To help you know exactly what he needs to be doing to actually change, (in module 4 after you’ve done your work) I outline exactly what he needs to be doing to actually change his behaviors at the root cause, should he be willing to join you in the change process.
You will define your next steps and walk away with a plan of action to implement to either stay, stay for now, or begin the exit phase of your relationship.
ETC is the ONLY complete, holistic, Counselling Psychology based program that offers a step by step process to guide you in navigating an emotionally toxic relationship that supports you where you are right now in your relationship
The only holistically based program for women who are still in the relationship and want a process to gain clarity if they want to stay or go
Here’s what you receive when you invest in ETCE 6 month mentoring program today:
How it Works
Once you register you’ll have instant access to the entire program education area. You can dive it right away and get started!
You will participate in the initial 30 Day Relationship Reset, and once you do this you will have the opportunity to deepen your growth, healing and transformation over the additional 5 months we have together in the program.
This is a supported study program, which means it’s self-paced with the added personalized support in the community and live calls.
Once you register you’ll receive an email from me with your next steps, how the program works, and strategies for how to set yourself up for success.
My private clients pay over $3,500 monthly to work with me, and I know not everyone is in a place to invest at this level, and I only offer this to a few select clients per year…
I want to serve many more women in a shorter period of time, for a fraction of the cost so I can live my mission and purpose to get women out of the harmful relationship dynamics they’re living in starting with their own healing and growth
You can join End The Cycle Evolve today for only $549 USD* and get INSTANT access to start today on your transformation journey
*6 monthly payments of $549
You’ll finish this program with a clear plan of action moving forward – whatever that is for you.
No more endless hours researching online for answers, pouring through stacks of books, floundering, and trying to figure it out on your own!
End The Cycle Evolve is all about coming back home to you.
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Let’s Talk About Why You Can’t Afford NOT To Join ETCE
You might be thinking that a group program won’t offer you the support you need, however working in a group setting with other women in a similar situation is extremely powerful.
You will learn from other women’s experiences, and identify with other women’s stories.
In fact, a group setting is often more transformational (when it’s facilitated effectively) than simply going for weekly therapy sessions. It’s potent and powerful, you’ll feel validated, heard, and seen in the community.
Many of my ETC program ladies report how powerful it is to have a community of women sharing and validating one another, and how healing it is to see themselves and their situation in other women, to know that what they’ve been experiencing is a real thing that countless other women are also living with.
You can pay a therapist $150 per hour each week ($600 monthly) and get mediocre results…
Or you can join a specialized, laser focused, and proven process to get you from uncertainty, anxiety, and confusion to clarity, focus, peace, and power (within weeks).
The combination of the module work, live calls, and private online support forum so you get the attention you need, makes this a no-brainer solution to getting out of the painful cycles you’re in.
You can post in the group 24/7 and get answers to your specific relationship challenges so that you can start doing things differently.
ETCE is an investment in yourself and your future.
This program rapidly and permanently changes women’s lives in a way that years of therapy could not.
ETC is a specifically designed system, step-by-step method, and process that goes beyond what traditional 1:1 therapy can provide.
Let me clarify: I’m not knocking good quality therapy, there is definitely a place for it, however for the majority of my clients and students, therapy alone was not enough to move them toward meaningful change because the root cause of the relationship issues wasn’t being addressed.
You have a choice. Because life is about choice.
You can invest in getting specific support and guidance to move you forward (in much less time) toward having a real plan and your next steps already figured out
You can keep doing what you’ve been doing and try to figure it out on your own with books, online research, YouTube, free groups, and podcasts… and be in this exact same place in 6 months, 12 months, or sadly even longer
Each choice we make holds a consequence. A cause and an effect. Right now you’ve got an important life-changing choice to make.
Keep going in the same direction, or plug into a solution that will move your forward much faster than doing it alone
It’s time to get real about how staying where you are is impacting you.
If you choose to do nothing, nothing changes, and not only does nothing change, it most often becomes worse
If you know you’re ready to completely transform your life
Chances are, you’re exhausted and feel at the end of your rope. You’ve been at this for quite some time, and you’re asking yourself how much longer this can go on the way it is. You know something’s got to give. You’ve been putting your life on hold as you’ve been consumed with getting by day to day, coping in the relationship dynamics.
A Message To Moms
If you’re like the many of the moms I have worked with, you’re also feeling torn between choosing yourself and letting down your children or others if you decide to leave, and finding a way to make it work to avoid the anguish of breaking up your family.
Your body is breaking down.
Your adrenals are depleted, you’re not sleeping, and new health symptoms arise as you become sicker and sicker.
You may even have adrenal fatigue, thyroid issues, hormone and period problems, and myriad unexplained aches, pains, and ‘syndromes’ due to the ongoing stress you’ve been under.
And because of the state of your physical and emotional health, you feel unequipped to make decisions about what to do about your situation.
You feel trapped.
It’s not your fault that you’ve reached this point. You have not had the right support, a structured plan, and specialized expert guidance.
The people you have gone to for help and support have led you astray. Don’t blame and shame yourself for feeling stuck, this will not help.
But if you keep going on this path and the relationship continues as it has been, and becomes worse over time, your body will continue to deteriorate, your mental health will continue to decline, and any children you have in the home will be further harmed in the dynamic of tension, and seeing you unhappy and unwell.
If you’re like most of my clients before they start working with me, you likely feel your family’s fate rests on your shoulders, and the pressure is intense. You play mental ping pong all day long about whether to stay or go.
You’re not present for your kids, and you feel like a terrible mother when you lose your cool with them yet again due to all the pressure and stress you’re under.
I get you’re overwhelmed with the uncertainty of your future, and you’re confused about where to go from here.
But the cold hard, no nonsense truth is that things will only continue to get worse if you don’t get the expert help you need to move the needle forward and develop a plan of action.
You don’t have time to tinker around in therapy talking about how crappy you feel for months on end, getting nowhere.
And therapy with your partner is doomed to fail as well.
The solution is you coming back to you.
Taking the focus off of your partner, and putting it on you.
To bring yourself back into the equation of your life.
For you to start taking a stand and setting rock solid limits and boundaries.
To take steps to protect yourself and your children if you have any in the home.
You want peace, relief, to feel safe and relaxed, happy, and excited about waking up in the morning, to feel the freedom to live your life how you want to live it – without walking on eggshells, without feeling controlled.
ETC is the solution.
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Frequently asked questions
Yes, the installment plan option is offered for your convenience to make it accessible for those who aren’t able to pay for the program in full. This is not a membership, it is a coaching program. You are required to make all of your payments. Payments are debited every 30 days with the payment method you have on file. If you wish to continue on after the 6 month initial phase month to month, you will be invited to do that at the end of the 6 month period.
While it is strongly recommended that you find a way to attend the live coaching calls for the most benefit, there will be replay recordings made available.
I’m not in the relationship anymore, or am separated and considering going back to my ex-partner, will ETC still help me?
Because I am no longer practicing as a counsellor (and this program is not counselling) I do not have a license number. ETCE is not a counselling program, it is a coaching and mentoring program.
Questions that aren’t covered here about the program?
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