Do you get the feeling that you should be further along in your life in some area or in your adrenal fatigue recovery journey?
Maybe you are doing all that you know how to do to heal your stubborn fatigue and adrenal issues, or to lose the stubborn weight, and yet, nothing is working.
For one client last week, we were messaging between her sessions, and she was really feeling bogged down because she was telling herself “I spent so many years battling an eating disorder while my friends had boyfriends” and she was feeling like she is behind in the relationship and family department of her life, as friends are having kids and getting married.
We cleared that up quick when I helped her see that this was the belief she was choosing in that moment, one that made her feel like total shit.
And the beautiful thing with beliefs, is that we can Always choose to change them!
Maybe it’s with your career or business. You feel like everyone else is advancing, more happy in their jobs, better at everything than you, or that your business should be making 6 figures like the girl on Instagram who did it in 2 months.
Maybe it’s in your relationship with your partner. You feel uneasy or not quite (or a lot) dissatisfied. You think all the other couples on Facebook on gorgeous island vacations sans kids have it made in the shade.
And even more crappy, is when we feel this way with our finances or material things.
I can go there. We don’t live in our dream home, and we have goals that we still want to achieve, including travelling more, and other things that will improve our lives. And we are working toward it, but some days, I just want to move into my dream home with the luxury ensuite and massive kitchen NOW!
But I have chosen to adopt the belief that we are right where we are supposed to be.
Why fight with reality?
The fastest way to misery is to compare what we have to other people and decide that somehow, we fall short.
Everyone has a different life path. One that is just for them to have. We all do.
“Life will give you whatever experience is most helpful for the evolution of your consciousness. How do you know this is the experience that you need? Because this is the experience you are having at this moment”. -Eckhart Tolle